Happiness: Is It As Simple As Wanting What You Have?

We've all heard that happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have. Easier said than done, right? Texas Tech University psychologist Jeff Larsen and Amie McKibban of Wichita State University put it to the test.

Simply having a bunch of things is not the key to happiness," Larsen said. "Our data shows that you also need to appreciate those things you have. It's also important to keep your desire for things you don't own in check."

In my opinion this research simply put an academic spin on a spiritual law. Desire is something all humans naturally possess.  We have wants and our desire is the spark of all creation.  But, here's the million dollar question.  What do we have to do to make our desires become a reality?

Not an easy question to answer but this has been my experience. It's impossible to create what you want when you're feeling bad, sad or overwhelmed.   To get what you want, you have to focus on feeling good and hold onto that feeling while you're waiting for that something to arrive.  Every day feel like it's already here.

For some unexplained reason we seem to pay more attention to the things we don't have or don't want than the things we do.  When I do that all I get is more of the don't wants popping up in my life.  Not very smart is it?  Imagine a radio that you've tuned to 106.7 but you want to hear the music playing on 101.1.  It's not going to happen. You have to be in tuned into the station that going to play what you want to hear. 

We have to apply the same principle to the things we want.  We have to be tuned into the right frequency.  So now I wake up in the morning imagining I have all the things I want in my life.  That makes me feel happy and I do my best to hold onto that feeling all day.  Happiness is the magnet that draws in more happiness.

So, if you want a new house, picture yourself there, fantasize about it.   See it decorated just the way you want it.  Feel the sun warming your skin as you sit by your fabulous pool. Harness those powerful happiness vibrations because that's what will turn your dreams into reality.   

Dr. Christiane Northrop Says "The Smile" Renews Sexual Desire

Dr. Christiane Northrop was back on Oprah yesterday.  You remember the last time she appeared talking about Oprah's thyroid condition it caused quite a stir.  This time it was all about answering questions from the audience.  The show got up close and personal regarding female health issues. Every topic from vaginal odor to urinary incontinence was covered in detail. 

One of the women who was part of an assembled female forum asked Dr. Northrop how to get back her sex drive after having undergone a hysterectomy.  Her surgery was a couple of years ago but she hasn't been able to regain her sexual desire.  That's not unusual.  After you lose your ovaries you lose your ability to produce estrogen and testosterone which are the hormones of desire. Dr. Northrop says "you can use your mind and your breath to energize.  Send a big ball of energy down there.  Because you know what?  They didn't take away your clitoris."

   

Starbucks: How It Became A Spiritual Retreat For Michael Gill

I had to run to my computer and write this blog after watching Michael GIll on CBS's Sunday Morning program. 

When I finished reading Eat Pray Love I thought I had reached the top of the mountain when it came to inspirational stories.  But, today Michael Gill took me to new heights.  I haven't read the book yet, but have no doubt whatsoever, that Michael was on a path that the universe had in store for him all along. A path we will all go down as part of our own spiritual journey.

What I heard this morning was how an affluent man fell from grace.  And, how that experience opened his heart, allowing him to experience a new and profound kind of joy.

Eat Pray Love - You Have Got To Read This Book

For those of you who haven't yet read Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert - run out and get a copy, you're going to love it.  In my opinion, this wonderful little book is packed with life changing insights and is a must read for every woman on the planet.

What I liked most about this book was Liz's honesty and her courage.  She turned herself inside out to explore the deepest recesses of her soul.  Anyone who travels with her on this heart felt journey will connect to their own passions and longings through her superbly written stories.

 

Esther Hicks & The Law of Attraction - Bringing Sanity Into A Insane World

Yesterday I attended my third "Art of Allowing" Workshop led by Esther Hicks and her husband Jerry.  Esther is one of the finest motivational speakers ever. I have been listening to the Abraham-Hicks tapes for the past 12 years and can honestly say they have changed my life.  They bring clarity and wisdom that truly resonate with the deepest part of who I am. 

I learned yesterday that The Big "O" Oprah herself, is also a huge fan of these teachings.  The reason they are so popular is because they clearly answer the timless questions about life and how to make it better. They help us find the joy we are all seeking, and give us step-by-step guidance on how to bring the things we desire directly to our door. I try to incorporate many of their teachings into my High-Yield Living philosopy because the messages are so transforming and so rewarding.

Women's Health Week: Make it Count!

This week is National Women's Health Week.  The theme this year is "It's Your Time! Pamper Your Mind, Body and Spirit".  Of course, I'm delighted with this message because it's the backbone of High-Yield Living.

Taking time to care for yourself is not only essential for good health, it's essential for enjoying life. I know we are all pressed for time, but we really can't afford to take ourselves for granted any longer. After all, today is not a dress rehearsal.  It's opening night. Don't you think it's time to give yourself "top billing"?  It's your choice!  But, before you make that choice, consider this.  You will be no good to yourself and others if you choose to put yourself last.

The Secret - Not Such A Secret Afterall

After "The Secret" was revealed on Oprah last week, it caused quite a stir.  In fact, there will be a followup program this Friday, February 16th, when Oprah will talk about what has happened since the show was aired.

It's funny, I remember Oprah saying she didn't know this was a secret, it's just the way she lives her life.  I feel the same way.  The Secret isn't a secret. It's something we all knew, but over time many of us have forgotten. The Law of Attraction is a universal law that is part of each of us.  It has been around since time began.  I adopted these laws over 30 years ago when I first read them in a book called "Consciously Creating Circumstances".  The book made me connect to what was already inside of me.  That reconnect changed my life.

High-Yield Living's New Website

We're live. Please come and visit our new website http://www.highyieldliving.com.  At High-Yield Living we strive to make your Act Two a "Triumph of the Spirit".  We'll bring you cutting-edge information along with timeless inspiration. Aging is inevitable - how you age is always your choice.    

We would really love to hear what you think.  Your input is invaluable..  Email us:- info@highyieldlliving.com.  Let us know what you want to see and how we an further meet your needs.

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Living Life on Your Terms

Have you ever wondered why some people attract so much good into their lives while others just keep getting more and more of what they don't want?  I don't think this is an accident or a random call.  I believe you attract into your life what your emotions and inner most thoughts are dictating. In other words, you are a magnet, getting back what you send out. That's why it's so important to pay attention to what you are thinking.  Thoughts become actions, and actions determine your reality.

To get what you want, you have to align your energy with what you want.  You have to send out a clear signal.  If your words don't match your emotion your signal is unclear.  The clearer the signal the faster you manifest what you want.  Confusion or static keeps your desires away. If you do nothing, then the assumption is you are happy with what is, and circumstances remain unchanged.

High-Yield Living for Boomers

High-Yield Living is the new aging paradigm. It's knowing how to get the maximum rewards with minimum risks.   High-Yield Living for Boomers is a specialized program that gives you the tools needed to counteract the effects of reverse puberty.  It's a rejuventating blend of cutting edge information and ageless inspiration.  I call it "changing how you're aging".

I'm Linda Franklin and I've started this blog to help all boomers deal successfully with the many challenges facing our generation.  The Boomer Program targets 5 areas we're struggling with the most - health, beauty, relationships, finance and spirituality.

The quality of your life depends largely on what you choose to believe.  Your beliefs can make you unstoppable or create barriers that will do nothing but hold you back. The High-Yield Program helps you change the beliefs that just aren't working.  You will be amazed to see how a new belief can change your life.  Yes, it can even change how you feel about aging.  Nobody is thrilled about getting older, and  I was no exception.  So I did what I had to do.  I created a brand new belief that gets me through the rough spots....."aging is inevitable, but how I age is always my choice".  That opens up a whole new world of possibility. That's how we change the aging paradigm.