Real Cougars: They're Not Who You Think They Are

This Friday I was asked to appear on Fox's Good Day New York to talk about Cougars.  What I am going to introduce on the show is the "Real Cougar".  I feel it's necesary because the image of a "Cougar" that is currently being portrayed, isn't who she is at all.  In fact,I am starting a campaign to take the negative out of "Cougar" and give us a new image, using my "Real Cougar" moniker.

Real Cougars are women who are smart, capable, confident, fit, beautiful, sexy, accomplished and secure.  The last thing they have time to do is go out late at night skulking after young men to pounce on.  That image is just so ridiculous, it makes me laugh. Yes, it's true Real Cougar women are attracting younger men, but they are not doing the pursuing.  We don't have to.  But, if we choose to go down that road, a younger man could be the beautiful red bow on an already expertly wrapped package.  A package that has taken years to perfect. The tag "Real Cougar" should be worn proudly.  It is the core of what we have worked so hard to achieve.   

Real Cougars aren't defined by their age or their marital status.  Whether they are married, single, 40 or 60 the common denominator is, she's a woman who knows what she wants and how to get. it.  She is not desperate and she's not unhappy.  She knows how to appreciate what she has got and is curious enough to actively pursue her latest dream.  She is not ruled by fear.  She is very comfortable with the woman she has become.  She knows that whatever comes her way, she will have the strength, grace and wisdom to handle it. I don't know exactly how "Cougars" got such a negative vibe, but I am going to do everything I can do to change that image.

During my visit to Fox I will be introducing my two new e-booklets. The first one is - "12 Secrets To Identifying the "Real Cougar" - She's Not Who You Think She Is", and the second "12 Ways to Unleash the Real Cougar In You" (sex tips we all need to be reminded of).  Both of these booklets will be available in the High-Yield Marketplace starting July 20th. I have already given them to my friends who are loving the tips. 

Ladies, we have so much to offer.  Don't hide your gifts -  show them off to the world.  We are magnificent gems that have taken years to achieve this clarity.  Now is the time for our true brilliance to shine through.